Opinions, perceptions, and judgments. We all have our own, but they can get us into sticky situations.
We are all taught from the time that we were born not to judge. Yet, on the other hand we are told that we have an undeniable freedom to have our own opinion and voice about everything. So, how do we not judge?
I can have an opinion about a subject and get on the internet real fast to find tons of articles supporting why I think my opinion is right. On the other hand, a person who differs in opinion from me can get on the internet and find millions of reasons why I'm wrong.
That's life. We are all different. I want to be different. If we all had the same beliefs and opinions how horrible would that be?
When you are faced with a difference in perception or opinion, try your best to not jump into being defensive. This is where you should be able to have a mature conversation. You might learn something new! Just because you believe you are fully educated on a subject doesn't mean that you are. Remember there are two sides to every story. Becoming heated before you even hear the other side could make you say something you may regret. You may seriously hurt or offend people.
Be open and give people a chance. Ultimately what you believe is best for you is what you should do. But being open can bring a different perspective. Maybe you will learn something new. Don't shut people down. Don't say hurtful things.
Remember, a statement of FACT can be proved TRUE or FALSE. A statement of OPINION is what someone believes or thinks. There may or may not be a good reason to think this way. Words that give you clues that a statement is an opinion are believe, like, and should.
Never stop learning. Keep growing as an adult. Listen, be kind. Learn to debate and be level headed. Never be like everyone else. Keep your beliefs true to your heart. Remember facts are facts. Your right may be someone else's wrong. That's okay. Don't judge others for not seeing things your way.
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